Anxiety can make you feel like you’re the only one struggling while you’re surrounded by people. That isolation gets worse when mental health support is expensive, hard to schedule, or simply not available where you live. We wanted a conversation that’s honest about those barriers and also practical about what to do next, so we sat down with Tamar Blue, founder and CEO of Mental Happy, a HIPAA-compliant digital platform for expert-led virtual support groups.

Tamar shares how her own panic attacks, cultural stigma, and years of community work led her to build a safer alternative to “figure it out alone.” We talk about why support groups can be a powerful complement to therapy, especially for caregivers, parents, neurodivergent folks, and anyone who can’t easily get to in-person care. We also dig into what makes a support space actually feel safe: privacy protections, clear group descriptions, trigger warnings, transparency around pricing, and a low-noise approach that doesn’t mimic social media.

We go beyond access and into skills. Tamar explains self-activated care, preventative mental health practices, and how journaling, gratitude, and positive self-talk can change the inner narrative that keeps anxiety running the show. You’ll also hear simple daily habits and boundary strategies that help you stop absorbing other people’s urgency and come back to center.

If this resonates, share it with someone who needs a softer on-ramp to mental health support, and subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next. After you listen, leave a review and tell us: what’s one small practice that helps you feel steady?