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June 6, 2026

Don't Let the Hard Stop the Calling

Don't Let the Hard Stop the Calling

Don't Let the Hard Stop the CallingLife has a way of convincing us that difficult means stop.When the road gets steep, the obstacles pile up, and the weight feels heavier than we expected, it is easy to assume we have somehow wande…

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May 17, 2026

It is Okay to Be Seen

It is Okay to Be Seen

There is something vulnerable about being seen.Not just physically seen, but emotionally seen. Truly seen for who you are underneath the strength, the roles, the people-pleasing, the masks, and the survival skills.In this episode of Real Talk wi…

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May 9, 2026

The Finishing of a Memoir

The Finishing of a Memoir

Finishing my memoir has been one of the most emotional experiences of my life.Not because writing 70,000 words is easy. Trust me, it is not. But because every chapter forced me to sit face-to-face with versions of myself I spent years trying to ou…

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May 1, 2026

The Courage that Doesn't Make Headlines

The Courage that Doesn't Make Headlines

The courage that doesn’t make headlinesWe talk a lot about success in this world, but we rarely talk about what it costs to get there.Michael took me back to where his story really begins. Not in a boardroom, not in a startup pitch, but in…

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April 18, 2026

Meeting Your Child Where Their Brain Actually Is

Meeting Your Child Where Their Brain Actually Is

Your child melts down.They shut down.They explode over something that seems small.And your first thought might be,Why are they acting like this?That’s where this conversation with Dr. Kristen Cook changed something for me.Because what if…

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March 26, 2026

Going Back to Find What was Never Really Lost

Going Back to Find What was Never Really Lost

Going Back to Find What Was Never Really LostBy Ann KagariseThere’s something we don’t talk about enough.The quiet pull to go back.Back to the places we came from.Back to the versions of ourselves we had to leave behind just to s…

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March 20, 2026

I Thought I Needed to Fix My Child...

I Thought I Needed to Fix My Child...

I Thought I Needed to Fix My Child…But I Really Needed to Learn How to Hold ThemThere’s something no one really prepares you for when you become a parent.It’s not just the sleepless nights or the endless responsibilities.I…

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March 11, 2026

Wildflowers in the Desert: Finding Life Inside Alzheimer’s

Wildflowers in the Desert: Finding Life Inside Alzheimer’s

Wildflowers in the Desert: Finding Life Inside Alzheimer’sSometimes this journey with my mom feels like standing in a place that’s been stripped bare. Alzheimer’s has a way of doing that, taking pieces of the puzzle day by day un…

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Feb. 27, 2026

Brain Based Not Will Based

Brain Based Not Will Based

What’s Really Going On Beneath the SurfaceThere is a moment every parent, teacher, or caregiver has experienced.You’re watching a child melt down over what seems small.You’re watching a teen forget something again.You’re …

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Feb. 7, 2026

Diagnosis Day: Special needs Parenting

Diagnosis Day: Special needs Parenting

🌿 Caregiver Truth Session: Diagnosis DayWhen Answers Bring Both Relief and OverwhelmThere are moments in parenting that quietly divide your life into “before” and “after.”Diagnosis Day is one of them.Recently, my son …

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Jan. 21, 2026

When the Conversation Goes Somewhere You Didn’t Plan

When the Conversation Goes Somewhere You Didn’t Plan

 Every once in a while, a conversation surprises you.Not because you didn’t prepare, but because it asks something different of you. It asks you to stay. To answer honestly. To stop performing the role you know how to play and speak f…

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Jan. 15, 2026

Gratitude That Tells the Truth

Gratitude That Tells the Truth

 This week on the podcast, Tina and I talked about gratitude—but not the kind that gets posted in neat squares or wrapped in a bow.We talked about the kind of gratitude you reach for when life is hard.When cancer enters the room.When …

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Jan. 7, 2026

When Life Throws a Plot Twist and You Have to Rewrite the Story

When Life Throws a Plot Twist and You Have to Rewrite the Story

 There’s this moment in life that doesn’t get talked about enough.It’s when the story you thought you were living quietly falls apart.Not dramatically.Not with fireworks.Just… suddenly, something changes.And your bo…

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Dec. 10, 2025

I love the Me I see in you: Inspired by Gil Gillenwater

I love the Me I see in you: Inspired by Gil Gillenwater

I Love the Me I See in YouInspired by our latest podcast with Gil GillenwaterThere is something sacred that happens when we show up for another human being. Not with perfection. Not with answers. Not with the right words tied in a neat little bo…

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Dec. 3, 2025

When Life Pivots US

When Life Pivots US

When Life Changes the PlansThere are seasons when life gives us a choice. And then there are seasons when it does not ask for our permission at all. One day you are walking in a direction that feels familiar, and the next day life taps you on the …

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Nov. 17, 2025

It's Not Your Fault

It's Not Your Fault

It Is Not Your Fault: Understanding FASD, Neurodivergence, and the Power of CompassionNot every wound is visible. Not every struggle is understood at first glance. For those living with FASD and other forms of neurodivergence: you are not broken, …

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Nov. 5, 2025

Turning Pain into Purpose: When the Hardest Chapters Become Our Mission

Turning Pain into Purpose: When the Hardest Chapters Become Our Mission

Some stories are written in ink. Others are written in tears. And then there are the stories like ours, the ones forged in loss, heartbreak, and the quiet resilience it takes to keep showing up when the world has gone silent.In this week’s e…

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Oct. 29, 2025

Watch out! Turn Up the Volume! We are Aging Out LOUD!

Watch out! Turn Up the Volume! We are Aging Out LOUD!

Watch Out, World, We’re Aging Out LoudThere’s something electric about being a woman in midlife.We’ve lived, loved, lost, rebuilt, and risen, and now, finally, we’re stepping into a chapter where we don’…

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Oct. 15, 2025

Becoming Brave: A Story of Resilience, Safety, and the Strength to Start Over

Becoming Brave: A Story of Resilience, Safety, and the Strength to Start Over

💫 Becoming Brave: Finding Strength in the Face of FearFeaturing Ana Hebra Flaster, Author of Property of the RevolutionA motorcycle in the barrio.Forty-eight hours to leave.A six-year-old girl whose world shrinks to the sound of an engine and th…

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Oct. 14, 2025

What if the Love you Learned wasn't Love at All

What if the Love you Learned wasn't Love at All

What if the love you learned was never love at all  but performance, peacekeeping, and fear dressed up as care?In this week’s episode of Real Talk with Tina and Ann, I sit down with my friend Denise Bard for one of the most honest and h…

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Oct. 1, 2025

Raising Today’s Kids: Strength Through Struggle

Raising Today’s Kids: Strength Through Struggle

I remember watching one of my kids face a problem that I could have easily stepped in and solved. Every part of me wanted to jump in and fix it. I wanted t take away the frustration I saw on their face. But something in me said, “Step back. Le…

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Sept. 24, 2025

Reinvention Isn’t Optional: Finding Purpose When Life Changes the Script

Reinvention Isn’t Optional: Finding Purpose When Life Changes the Script

You know, listening to my conversation with Leslie, I couldn’t help but think about how many times in life we all hit that moment when the story we thought we were living suddenly changes. Maybe it’s a marriage that doesn’t last. M…

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Sept. 10, 2025

The Alphabet of Neurodivergence — And Why It’s My Superpowe

The Alphabet of Neurodivergence — And Why It’s My Superpowe

 Hi, I’m Ann — podcast host, writer, photographer, and proud mom of five amazing kids (three of whom are also neurodivergent). And here’s something I want to say loud and clear: I have autism. I have ADHD. I am also dyslexic…

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Sept. 3, 2025

Mental Health is Health

Mental Health is Health

🧠 Mental Health Is Health: You’re Not Alone and You’re Not BrokenReal Talk with Tina and AnnLet’s get something straight right out of the gate:Mental health is health. Period.It’s not a luxury. It’s not a weakness. …

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