A single morning can redraw the map of a child's entire life.
At six years old, Tim Smith woke up believing he was getting a day off from school. Instead, it became the day that changed everything. In this powerful conversation, Tim, author of Fault Line Still Standing, shares the moment he calls his "fault line" and what happens when the people who are supposed to protect you become the source of fear, silence, and survival.
Tim takes us through being separated from his father at just six years old, the confusion of adults making life-altering decisions without explanation, and the lasting effects of childhood trauma. We explore how those experiences can resurface years later as memory gaps, selective mutism, hypervigilance, and a constant search for safety and control. We also talk about the lifelines that can make all the difference, including creativity as a refuge and one safe adult, his grandmother Ruthie, whose unconditional love became an anchor in an otherwise uncertain world.
From there, we have an honest conversation about how shame and rejection shape identity, how unresolved trauma can lead us toward addiction or unhealthy relationships, and why healing is rarely a straight path. Tim shares what healing looks like for him today: finding peace in his body, creating a home that feels safe, and having the courage to say, "No more." He also reminds us that our past does not have to define our future. While we cannot choose what happened to us, we can choose what happens next.
If you care about trauma recovery, resilience, breaking generational cycles, and finding your voice after a painful childhood, this is a conversation you won't want to miss.
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