Dec. 10, 2025

Border of Hope: I love the Me I See in You with Gil Gillenwater

Send us a text We bring the border into focus as a lived place, not a line, and confront how wealth disparity, US demand, and policy choices shape human lives. Gil Gillenwater shows why enlightened self interest, housing with dignity, and education beat walls and fear. • wealth disparity between $18 an hour and $14 a day • the border as community, not an abstract boundary • enlightened self interest as a guiding principle • youth loneliness, consumerism, and loss of purpose • how US drugs, g...

Send us a text

We bring the border into focus as a lived place, not a line, and confront how wealth disparity, US demand, and policy choices shape human lives. Gil Gillenwater shows why enlightened self interest, housing with dignity, and education beat walls and fear.

• wealth disparity between $18 an hour and $14 a day
• the border as community, not an abstract boundary
• enlightened self interest as a guiding principle
• youth loneliness, consumerism, and loss of purpose
• how US drugs, guns, and corporations fuel violence
• post 9 11 militarization and the Devil’s Highway
• predation and the cost of crossing
• from charity to reciprocity in service work
• Rancho Feliz housing plus education model
• measurable outcomes and middle class mobility

You do not want to miss it. Join us next week for part two with Gil Gillenwater.

Book: Hope on the Border

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Chapters

00:08 - A Book’s Harrowing Opening

00:58 - The Border As A Lived Place

03:05 - Wealth Disparity And Its Costs

05:06 - Leaving The Bubble To See

08:22 - Enlightened Self Interest Explained

11:14 - Money, Meaning, And Youth Despair

14:50 - First Encounters Change Young Volunteers

16:42 - How US Demand Fuels Violence

19:35 - Policy Shifts And The Devil’s Highway

24:12 - Predation, Rape, And Survival

27:34 - Carrying Trauma And Finding Gratitude

29:34 - A Father’s Choice And Family Separation

33:16 - Mass Crossings And Hidden Processing

38:09 - From Charity To Measurable Solutions

41:43 - Origin Story Of Rancho Feliz

45:04 - Service That Feeds Purpose

49:37 - From Volunteers To Guardian Warriors

53:06 - Housing Plus Education Model

56:48 - Requirements That Build Dignity

58:30 - Closing And Part Two Tease

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