Brain Based Not Will Based
What’s Really Going On Beneath the SurfaceThere is a moment every parent, teacher, or caregiver has experienced.You’re watching a child melt down over what seems small.You’re watching a teen forget something again.You’re …
What’s Really Going On Beneath the SurfaceThere is a moment every parent, teacher, or caregiver has experienced.You’re watching a child melt down over what seems small.You’re watching a teen forget something again.You’re …
🌿 Caregiver Truth Session: Diagnosis DayWhen Answers Bring Both Relief and OverwhelmThere are moments in parenting that quietly divide your life into “before” and “after.”Diagnosis Day is one of them.Recently, my son …
Every once in a while, a conversation surprises you.Not because you didn’t prepare, but because it asks something different of you. It asks you to stay. To answer honestly. To stop performing the role you know how to play and speak f…
This week on the podcast, Tina and I talked about gratitude—but not the kind that gets posted in neat squares or wrapped in a bow.We talked about the kind of gratitude you reach for when life is hard.When cancer enters the room.When …
There’s this moment in life that doesn’t get talked about enough.It’s when the story you thought you were living quietly falls apart.Not dramatically.Not with fireworks.Just… suddenly, something changes.And your bo…
I Love the Me I See in YouInspired by our latest podcast with Gil GillenwaterThere is something sacred that happens when we show up for another human being. Not with perfection. Not with answers. Not with the right words tied in a neat little bo…
When Life Changes the PlansThere are seasons when life gives us a choice. And then there are seasons when it does not ask for our permission at all. One day you are walking in a direction that feels familiar, and the next day life taps you on the …
It Is Not Your Fault: Understanding FASD, Neurodivergence, and the Power of CompassionNot every wound is visible. Not every struggle is understood at first glance. For those living with FASD and other forms of neurodivergence: you are not broken, …
Some stories are written in ink. Others are written in tears. And then there are the stories like ours, the ones forged in loss, heartbreak, and the quiet resilience it takes to keep showing up when the world has gone silent.In this week’s e…
Watch Out, World, We’re Aging Out LoudThere’s something electric about being a woman in midlife.We’ve lived, loved, lost, rebuilt, and risen, and now, finally, we’re stepping into a chapter where we don’…
💫 Becoming Brave: Finding Strength in the Face of FearFeaturing Ana Hebra Flaster, Author of Property of the RevolutionA motorcycle in the barrio.Forty-eight hours to leave.A six-year-old girl whose world shrinks to the sound of an engine and th…
What if the love you learned was never love at all but performance, peacekeeping, and fear dressed up as care?In this week’s episode of Real Talk with Tina and Ann, I sit down with my friend Denise Bard for one of the most honest and h…
I remember watching one of my kids face a problem that I could have easily stepped in and solved. Every part of me wanted to jump in and fix it. I wanted t take away the frustration I saw on their face. But something in me said, “Step back. Le…
You know, listening to my conversation with Leslie, I couldn’t help but think about how many times in life we all hit that moment when the story we thought we were living suddenly changes. Maybe it’s a marriage that doesn’t last. M…
Hi, I’m Ann — podcast host, writer, photographer, and proud mom of five amazing kids (three of whom are also neurodivergent). And here’s something I want to say loud and clear: I have autism. I have ADHD. I am also dyslexic…
🧠 Mental Health Is Health: You’re Not Alone and You’re Not BrokenReal Talk with Tina and AnnLet’s get something straight right out of the gate:Mental health is health. Period.It’s not a luxury. It’s not a weakness. …
What happens to love after loss? Does it vanish into memory, or does it find new ways to stay alive in us? That’s the question at the heart of this week’s Real Talk with Tina and Ann.My guest, Tony Stewart, lived this question firsthan…
“When pain and passion meet, you have purpose.”Let that settle for a second.Most of us spend a good portion of our lives trying to avoid pain and chasing passion as if it’s only reserved for the lucky or the chosen. But what if y…
In today's episode, we’re getting real about something that’s not just inspirational, it’s transformational.Let’s talk about the journey from broken beginnings to becoming your best self.Now, maybe you weren’t techn…
“When you grow up inside a secret, you learn how to survive in silence. But survival isn’t the same as living.”On this episode of Real Talk with Tina and Ann, I sat down with my dear friend and returning guest Denise Bard to unpa…
"Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem: Why Knowing the Difference Changes Everything"Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt… “not enough”?Maybe it was after a rough day when the world made you question your value. Maybe it was afte…
Some stories, in our very own lives, sit quietly—unspoken, unanswered, unexplored.Recently, I watched the Mariska Hargitay documentary. What stayed with me wasn’t just her courage or her advocacy (though I’ve long admired her for…
Living Neurodivergent: The Beautiful, Baffling, Brainy RideEver walked into a room and completely forgotten why you went in there?Welcome. You may be entitled to compensation… or at least a sticker.Hi, I’m Ann Kagarise (co-host at R…
I recently watched the Mariska Hargitay documentary, and I don’t say this lightly--it shook me. Not in a loud, dramatic way, but in that quiet, unsettling way when something grabs your soul and whispers, "Something Isn't Right."It touched me…